Things change.
People change.
Sometimes, even the ones we thought were our own — change the way they express love, the way they respond, the way they see us.
Time, circumstances, and experiences shape people.
They influence how others treat us, how they think of us, and how they judge us.
And often, their perception of us depends not on the years we stood by them —
but on a few recent moments that went wrong.
But pause and think...
Is one unpleasant moment really greater than all the years of shared smiles, laughter, and love?
Is one misunderstanding heavier than the countless days of togetherness?
Can a small ego or a short burst of anger outweigh a lifetime of cherished bonds?
We all make mistakes.
We all get hurt.
But love and friendship were never meant to be battles of pride.
They were meant to be spaces of forgiveness —
where hearts bend, not break.
Life, after all, is fleeting.
We are here for only a few years —
and in this short journey, isn’t happiness together worth more than winning an argument alone?
Let us not deprive ourselves of love, laughter, and peace
for the sake of ego or hurt feelings.
Let’s forgive quickly, forget easily,
and choose joy over judgment.
Because at the end of our days,
what will truly matter
is not who was right or wrong —
but how much love we gave and how many hearts we kept close.
“Ego divides what love once united — but forgiveness rebuilds it stronger.”
— By Mrs. Deepalaxmi Bhat
Rays of Light | Reflections that Awaken the Soul 🌸
Patience is the best method for reaching the goal and happiness
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